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Which book to read first?
One of the biggest questions we get emailed is: Which book do I read first? So my team asked me to write my thoughts on my nine book children and where to start, or continue.

Are you in excess, deficiency, or balance?
Many plants are medicinal in the right dosage. Take too much and they can be poisonous. Take too little and they are ineffective. Just because something is toxic in excess doesn’t mean that it is not also healing in moderation.

You need more energy. Here’s how to get it.
Getting to truth takes immense courage to see things as they are, not as we wish them to be. We must step beyond the guardian of confusion, and pass through the portal of paradox.
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Community: Discover the strength of collective wisdom as we share narratives that foster connection and belonging. From honoring our ancestors during the Day of the Dead to navigating the complexities of modern relationships, these articles invite you to engage deeply with the world around you.
Relationships: Unpack the layers of human connection through candid discussions on love, betrayal, and healing. Explore personal accounts of overcoming heartache and learn how to transform challenges into opportunities for growth and deeper intimacy.
Sacred Time: Embrace the art of mindfulness and the importance of creating sacred spaces in your daily life. Gain practical tools to maintain your center amidst chaos and cultivate rituals that honor your personal journey.
Things We Don't Talk About: Venture into conversations that are often avoided yet profoundly impactful. Address topics like spiritual bypassing, racism, and the courage required to face uncomfortable truths, fostering a more inclusive and compassionate worldview.
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Let Me Carry Your Prayers

Which Book To Read First?

Addiction, Q, Boundaries, and Compassion – Seeking Truth

Be Angry. (Here’s How)

You Need More Energy. Here’s How To Get It.

Digging the Roots, Being With Messiness

How to Stop Worrying About the End of the World

You Need More Energy. Here’s How To Get It.

Meet My Dead Friends, and Introduce Me to Yours

On Betrayal, Making Mistakes, and the Fiery Courage to Go Forward…

To the Daughter I Never Had

Gossiping, Venting, or Processing?

Walking Through the Fire

What the Sea Turtle Told Me to Do

Walking Our Prayers to the Divine

Pushing, Procrastination, and Right Timing

The Gift of Being Erased and the Power of Neutral

Moving from Mind-Full-Mess to Mindfulness

On Stillness and Weeping

The Art of Ritual

Let Me Carry Your Prayers

Be Angry. (Here’s How)

To the Daughter I Never Had

Things We Don’t Talk About Part 5: Racism, Spiritual Bypass, and Healing the Whole

Things We Don’t Talk About Part 4: Abortion

Things We Don’t Talk About Part 3: Depression and Suicide
Out of the Fire
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